Ashabi Simple, the fourth baby mama of popular Nigerian singer Portable, has addressed critics who frequently shame her over her relationship with the musician. Ashabi, who shares two children with Portable, took to social media to confront the negative remarks and trolling she has faced. Many critics have called her out for having children with a married man and becoming his fourth baby mama.
In a social media post, Ashabi revealed the specific comments people use to try to demean her, such as calling her “number 4,” accusing her of giving birth for another woman’s husband, and mocking her lifestyle. However, she emphasized that these remarks do not affect her, as the opinions of others hold no power over her or her life.
She wrote:
“U go wan abuse me u go say my mouth wide
I b baby mama
I b number 4
He go soon disgrace you
U Dey born for person husband
U Dey toke bike around wit kids
Na abuse b dat? Na news & secret dem Dey use abuse person no b slang so do well by finding new words I don hear those ones tire abeg no b u b my GOD and u no fit change
anything with your opinion
Ire o.”
Reactions from Social Media
Ashabi’s post has sparked various reactions online, with many sharing their thoughts on her response and the situation:
iamsheila_: “Portable and his wives abi baby mamas are perfect for each other..they are cut from same cloth.”
the.pattty: “Shame please leave me and cling to distin 😂😂😂”
beccaszn: “If okiki dinuur kiss me in a day I can cry don drop update! 😂person wey dem nor love for house 🙄”
aduke_luxury_store: “If okiki did not kiss me in a day, I can cry. Your crying just start o 🤣🤣🤣. Keeping up Elizabeth Joyce and his wives that are not loved at home.”
same_harriet: “Women go open eye make rubbish decision come Dey form victim. Before you see women that take accountability na with connection.”