Relationship coach Blessing Okoro, known as Blessing CEO, has weighed in on the controversy surrounding content creators Jarvis and Peller following a viral video that sparked widespread criticism.
The video showed Peller hitting Jarvis on the head before forcing her into his car, claiming the area was unsafe.
Many viewers criticized his behavior as abusive, though Jarvis later defended their relationship and dismissed the backlash.
Blessing CEO advised the couple to keep their personal issues private if they don’t want public scrutiny.
She pointed out that being in the spotlight naturally invites opinions, and ignoring advice from family, friends, or even strangers can lead to regret.
She specifically cautioned Jarvis against responding rudely to people offering genuine concern, warning that this could send the wrong message to young followers by making abusive behavior seem normal.
“Abuse isn’t just physical violence,” Blessing explained. “It includes psychological and emotional harm too. Victims often end up defending their abusers, which only makes the cycle worse.”
She urged Jarvis to take the warnings seriously, noting that dismissing them now could make things more difficult if the situation gets worse later.
The comments sparked mixed reactions online, with some praising her advice while others questioned her own social media behavior and pointed out perceived contradictions.
